I have my ideas and theories about why chasing women is a bad idea, and can completely distract you from what the bigger goal and your bigger life’s purpose is.

There are two reasons why women make you chase them.

1. She is not into you

When a woman is really into you, depending on her age, level of experience and among other things, she will be more than willing to not drag things out just because of the thrill she may feel about being chased.

When a woman really likes you, it’s quite easy to see it in her speech, in her availability, in her body language, and in the things that she does when she is around you. However, if you’re the one who seems to always be doing that chasing, then you’re in trouble, because it means that she’s not into you.

She probably has multiple suitors, and you’re not on top of her list, so she would want you to work a little harder to win her affection.

2. She doesn’t feel safe around you

She probably is not feeling safe with you because she’s had some terrible previous experiences, when it comes to men, and is being wary.

Furthermore, she puts up all these barricades and walls up, in a way to sort of protect her heart, and so she would let you actually work really hard to win her affection, and she feels that the harder a man is willing to work for her affection and her attention, the more dedicated he will be.

That, usually, is not the case.

Now, let me tell you why I believe men should not be chasing anyone.

Chasing a woman distracts you from your goals

For starters, if your main focus is to chase a woman, it diverts your attention from actually pursuing the things that really matter in life.

What are your goals, what are your aspirations? What is it that you want to do with your life? What are your dreams?

Now is the time to make those dreams come true. If you’re busy spending time chasing women instead of chasing those dreams, you will soon realise that your dreams are even harder to attain, and you wasted a lot of time.

So, rather than chasing women, focus on your dreams and once you do become successful, guess who’s going to be chasing you? Yup – Women.

So don’t chase women, chase your dreams. If you successfully managed to check those dreams, the women will come.

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