Have you ever sent a text and then waited…and waited…only to be met with silence for hours? If you’re like most guys, your texting game is doing one of two things: it’s either making her obsessed with you or completely turning her off. If you’re in that second category, don’t worry, because today, I’m going to give you seven tips that will completely supercharge your texting game and keep her coming back for more.

1. Start with Power: Use Mystery

Let’s kick it off with a game-changer: Mystery. Here’s the deal—women love a challenge. If you’re an open book and give everything away upfront, you take away the excitement. Being mysterious is a way to keep her curious, engaged, and thinking about you. When texting a woman, treat each message like a teaser, not the entire story. This leaves her wanting to know more about you, which creates that magnetic pull.

For example, try something like:

“I’ve got a story for you…but I’m not sure you’re ready for it yet.”

Immediately, her mind starts racing. What’s the story? Why wouldn’t she be ready? You’ve hooked her, and now she’s thinking about you long after the text ends. This is like leaving her on a cliffhanger at the end of a TV show.

The key? Don’t reveal too much at once. Create tension, keep the conversation exciting, and make her chase the next message. When you hold back just enough, she’ll lean into every word, eagerly awaiting what you’ll say next.

2. Scarcity Creates Desire

Here’s where most guys mess up big time: availability. You think being there 24/7, responding within seconds, and always being ready for her is what she wants. Wrong! If you’re always accessible, you lose value. Scarcity creates desire.

When you stop over-texting, you make her wonder what you’re up to, and that drives her wild. The trick is simple—don’t respond immediately every time. Let her feel a little uncertainty. Maybe you’re busy at the gym, working, or hanging out with friends. This shows her you’ve got a life, and it’s attractive.

Example:

“Sorry, just got out of the gym. What’s up?”

By not being overly available, you keep her intrigued. You’re not playing hard to get to the point of frustration, but showing that you’ve got your own ambitions. The less you’re available, the more she’ll crave your attention.

3. Add Some Edge: Flirt with Confidence

Too many guys are playing it safe with their texts, and it’s killing the attraction. If you’re texting like her best friend, you’ll be treated like one. You need to flirt with confidence. This isn’t about being arrogant; it’s about showing her that you know your worth and that you’re not afraid to let her know it too.

A confident, playful text might look like:

“I bet you couldn’t handle a date with me. I’m a little too much fun.”

You’re teasing her, showing that you’re not afraid to flirt and take the lead. Remember, texting is about creating chemistry, not just exchanging words. Keep things light, fun, and bold enough to keep her interested.

4. Keep It Fun and Light

Texting should be fun! Too often, guys get caught up in trying to have deep, meaningful conversations over text. While there’s a time and place for that, texting is where you should keep things light, playful, and enjoyable. Women get bombarded with boring texts like “How was your day?” every day. You want to stand out by making her smile and laugh.

Try something like:

“If I told you a ridiculous joke, would you laugh or judge me?”

This keeps the mood light and makes her look forward to your texts. She should feel good when texting you, not like it’s a chore. Use jokes, memes, and GIFs to keep things interesting. But remember, balance is key—don’t turn every conversation into a comedy routine.

 

5. Be Unpredictable

Predictability kills attraction. If she knows exactly what you’re going to text next, the excitement fades. Keep her guessing by being unpredictable with your messages. Mix things up. If she’s used to you texting at night, send a playful message during the day. Or surprise her with a random voice note or a funny photo.

For example, instead of the classic “Hey, how was your day?”, try:

“Just passed a sushi place—thinking of that time you almost convinced me it was a good idea to eat raw fish.”

By switching up your style, you’ll keep her intrigued, and she’ll never know what’s coming next. This unpredictability will keep the conversation fresh and exciting.

6. Keep Her Guessing

Take it a step further by leaving her hanging when things are getting good. Don’t exhaust every topic or answer every question in one conversation. Instead, end on a high note, leaving her wanting more.

For example, say something like:

“We’ve got to talk more about this, but I’ve gotta run—talk later?”

Now, she’s left thinking about what you were going to say next, and she’s excited for the next conversation. You’re tapping into the psychological power of anticipation, which keeps her thinking about you even when you’re not texting.

7. End with a Bang

Finally, always leave her wanting more. When you’ve got a great conversation flowing, it can be tempting to keep it going until you’ve said everything. Don’t do that. Walk away while it’s still exciting.

If you’re in a flirty conversation, you could say:

“There’s something I’ve been meaning to ask you, but it can wait until tomorrow ;)”

By ending the conversation early, you’re creating desire through incompleteness. She’ll be thinking about you all night, wondering what the question is, and will probably text you first the next day.

The Bottom Line

Texting is about creating an experience. If you can make her laugh, keep her intrigued, and leave her wanting more, you’re already ahead of 90% of the competition. These tips aren’t about playing games—they’re about keeping the conversation exciting and memorable.

So, next time you’re texting a woman, remember these seven points. Create mystery, be a little unpredictable, flirt with confidence, and most importantly, leave her wanting more.

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